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How I'm doing: Great, because there's one more infusion to go!

Ring a bell or do a dance with me on Thursday (Feb 22) for my last infusion! I treat this milestone as if I'm finishing the hardest leg of a race. You know how people cheer on the sidelines and ring bells when people are watching racers? I'd love to have that feeling as I wrap up chemo and head into the next phase of my treatment plan.

So, set an alarm for around 4 pm CT (or whenever) on Thursday and either ring a bell (like a cowbell they ring at races), play a bell sound, or dance with me! Bonus points if you record and share.

Here's how to join me

Yesterday's infusion: Was fine! I was really tired again, but I got the private room with windows on two sides, which was really nice, and all went well. I woke up this morning feeling better than I have in awhile, which I appreciate, because I've got another first date tonight! Even with chemo rash and a shaved head. 😅

Today I was supposed to: Be leaving on a 3-week vacation to the Cook Islands with my friend Nikki from Australia, and then afterward meeting another friend, Stacey, to explore Cambodia and Vietnam. Obviously that is postponed. But! Nikki offered to come visit me in Chicago instead! So I get to see her this week, and she'll be there to help me ring the bell. Uncanny how timing works out. :)

About dating: Yes, I'm still dating. Or trying to—dating is hard enough as it is! People have asked me about dating during cancer. If you have questions, I'd love to hear them, so please get in touch. I'm debating on writing something more formally about this topic to help other cancer patients facing the question, "Should I date during treatment if I want to?" 

Another project I'm working on: I'm formally putting together a case study to present to patient advocacy representatives and other healthcare officials about the narrative gap in information and support for people who go into treatment otherwise healthy and already leading a healthy lifestyle, because information is not currently targeted to this group. This will require asking for more research in this area.

If you have connections to the health care industry and have ideas on angles for making a pitch, please get in touch! 

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